Monday, February 18, 2008

Shipwrecked


I am the emotional wreck I suspect you'd all anticipate me being upong hearing the news that my father finally lost his fight with cancers.

In the end, it wasn't the cancer, per se, that won out: his lungs pressed against his sweet heart, causing an unusual rhythm which refused to be soothed by medication. And by all accounts we say: "how lucky" because his most recent cancer typically results in a dreadful, slow and painful death and instead of experiencing that, he went gently, in his sleep. And up until his death he was conscious, alert and his charming, delightful self.

But I didn't mean to come here and share that. I meant to come here and share that after ten days with my extremely conservative family I received an anti-immigrant e mail from my brother and my response suggests to him that the author of the original e mail is perhaps not asking pertinent questions and I pointed him in the direction of Foucault.

I figure, in context, that qualifies today as a good day.

I take what I can get.

4 comments:

KPJ said...

I'm sorry Lynda.
KJ

Andy Hageman said...

Hey Linda,
Sending my sympathy for your recent loss. All best wishes as you work through the process of grieving. I know how strange this process can be when losing someone who's been living with a terminal/debilitating disease and how it can seem as if you've been grieving in some ways long before the loved one has actually passed away.
Take care,
Andrew.

Andy Hageman said...

Sorry for the incorrect "i"--LYnda!
Feel free to address me as Anchew on future posts/comments ;)

JJisafool said...

Lynda, I'm sorry to hear about your loss. The longer we live, the more we experience death. Which I think explains the later life of every great thinker.

We're thinkin' about you.